Genesis 23
23 Sarah lived to be a hundred and twenty-seven years old. 2 She died at Kiriath Arba (that is, Hebron) in the land of Canaan, and Abraham went to mourn for Sarah and to weep over her.
3 Then Abraham rose from beside his dead wife and spoke to the Hittites.[a] He said, 4 “I am a foreigner and stranger among you. Sell me some property for a burial site here so I can bury my dead.”
5 The Hittites replied to Abraham, 6 “Sir, listen to us. You are a mighty prince among us. Bury your dead in the choicest of our tombs. None of us will refuse you his tomb for burying your dead.”
7 Then Abraham rose and bowed down before the people of the land, the Hittites. 8 He said to them, “If you are willing to let me bury my dead, then listen to me and intercede with Ephron son of Zohar on my behalf 9 so he will sell me the cave of Machpelah, which belongs to him and is at the end of his field. Ask him to sell it to me for the full price as a burial site among you.”
10 Ephron the Hittite was sitting among his people and he replied to Abraham in the hearing of all the Hittites who had come to the gate of his city. 11 “No, my lord,” he said. “Listen to me; I give[b] you the field, and I give[c] you the cave that is in it. I give[d] it to you in the presence of my people. Bury your dead.”
12 Again Abraham bowed down before the people of the land 13 and he said to Ephron in their hearing, “Listen to me, if you will. I will pay the price of the field. Accept it from me so I can bury my dead there.”
14 Ephron answered Abraham, 15 “Listen to me, my lord; the land is worth four hundred shekels[e] of silver, but what is that between you and me? Bury your dead.”
16 Abraham agreed to Ephron’s terms and weighed out for him the price he had named in the hearing of the Hittites: four hundred shekels of silver, according to the weight current among the merchants.
17 So Ephron’s field in Machpelah near Mamre—both the field and the cave in it, and all the trees within the borders of the field—was deeded 18 to Abraham as his property in the presence of all the Hittites who had come to the gateof the city. 19 Afterward Abraham buried his wife Sarah in the cave in the field of Machpelah near Mamre (which is at Hebron) in the land of Canaan. 20 So the field and the cave in it were deeded to Abraham by the Hittites as a burial site.
One of the things that I love about the Bible is that it shows people just as they are. It does not try to pretend that life was not hard or that the heroes of Israel didn’t make mistakes. They were normal people who went through exceptionally hard times and trusted in God throughout. Sarah was a woman who trusted in God, she had high moments and low moments, and she put her faith in him.
Abraham was hurting and mourning, blessed by God and yet has lost his closest companion. I think that sometimes we think that if we are faithful that death and disease will pass us by. We will somehow become immortal and pain free. Then, when pain inevitably comes our way, we are rocked by it. We wonder why God allowed this disease to come or this sickness to take a loved one. These moments are experienced by everyone and they are incredibly hard.
In this passage we see that God is faithful even in the hard moments. As Sarah’s life comes to an end, Abraham is broken and yet God‘s blessing is still upon him. This is a picture of the Christian walk - we are blessed and yet we still mourn. We are more than overcomers and yet we still get sick. There is brokenness and there are blessing in our lives. We can lose something so dear to us and still be the blessed people of God.
Mourning is hard and yet there is hope. This life is not the end and the choices we make echo into eternity. God is with us in even the darkest and saddest of moments.
